i think people should understand that
falling in love is a different thing from captivity
people should be as free as their will is.
love is love,
put your lover into a prison
or let them fly away
it will be the same for you,
you will love them anyway.
but prison cause pain to lovers.
big pain, that may change them forever.
let them be what they were before they met you
never try to change them
never try to tame them
never try to keep them to the ground
love was born free and when it is not
it dies.